Lustimacy is the lifestyle dating app for couples, polycules and open-minded singles. Sign up as a couple and share one profile, or link up to 3 partners to your own. Discreet by design, verified at the door, built around what you actually want.
Built for
Lustimacy was designed from day one for the lifestyle community — couples in the scene, singles who play with couples, and adults exploring ethical non-monogamy on their own terms.
Sign up as a couple from one account and share a single profile, or keep separate accounts and link up to three partners so your structure is visible before the first message. Either way, people see who you are with before they swipe — not after.
Filter for couples, singles, or both. See who's solo and who's got linked partners before you swipe. Detailed profiles tell you the lifestyle, the dynamic, and the energy before you ever start a chat.
New to the scene? Lustimacy is a low-pressure, judgment-free space to learn the language, ask questions, and meet people who'll meet you where you are. No tourists, no creeps, no rush.
Signature features
Five things every other dating app gets wrong for the lifestyle. We built them from scratch.
Sign up as a couple and you share a single profile — both of your details on one card, so everyone sees you as a couple from the first swipe. No second account, no pretending to be single. Already have separate accounts, or more than two of you? Link up to three partners instead: each keeps their own login and their own deck, and the connection shows on your profile. Visible, not shared.
Verification is a selfie matched to your profile photo, reviewed by a human rather than an automated check. It is free for everyone — no premium tier gates it, and a badge means the person is real, not that they paid. Verified-only filtering is one tap away.
Upload the photos you only want a real connection to see. Anyone who has not matched with you is only ever sent an irreversibly blurred copy — the original is withheld by our servers, not just hidden by the app. The moment you match, it unlocks for both of you.
Heading to Berlin for the weekend? Switch your search to any country — or open it up globally — and see the scene before you land. Set it back to your own city when you're home.
Looking for couples, singles, or both? Linked partners or solo? Body type, lifestyle, dynamic, distance, age. Every filter we built is one we use ourselves.
How it works
Four steps. No filler, no questionnaires, no algorithm voodoo.
Get Lustimacy free on Google Play, or sign up on this site with Google or an email link. Three short screens and one photo is the whole thing.
Tell us who you are, who you're with, and what you're into. Sign up as a couple to share one profile, or link up to 3 partners to your own. Solos get the full filter set.
A simple selfie check. Verified profiles get a badge and end up in front of more matches. Verified-only filtering is one tap away.
When the feeling is mutual, the chat opens. Private photos unlock automatically. Take it from there.
Try the rhythm
A real Lustimacy feed is filtered, verified, and curated. This is just a taste — drag a card or use the buttons.
Inside the app
We're starting here
Three of the most established lifestyle scenes in Europe, and the places our community is growing fastest. France has become our largest market without us even asking.
Lustimacy is live on Android worldwide, so you don't have to wait for your country. We're concentrating on these three first simply because that is where the deck fills up fastest.
Get it on Google PlayTrust & safety
Every member completes a selfie verification before they can fully match. Verified-only filtering is one tap. Fakes are removed within hours, not days.
No social-media linking. No public profile pages. Your account doesn't show up in Google searches. You decide what's visible and to whom.
Boundaries belong on every profile and we make them easy to set. Block, mute, and report tools take one tap. A human reads every report.
Reach a real person at [email protected]. We answer in hours during European working days, not weeks.
FAQ
Yes. Lustimacy is live on Google Play worldwide and free to join. We are concentrating on Germany and the Netherlands first, so those are the cities filling up fastest, but you can sign up from anywhere today. There is no iPhone app yet.
Two things. You can sign up as a couple and share one profile — both of your details live on it, and everyone sees you as a couple from the first swipe. Or, if you already have separate accounts or there are more than two of you, link up to three partners instead: each keeps their own login and swipes their own deck, with the connection shown on your profile. Singles can filter couples in or out, so nobody wastes anyone's time.
You upload private photos in your profile. Anyone who has not matched with you is only ever sent an irreversibly blurred copy — the original is withheld by our servers, not merely hidden by the app. The moment you match, the photos unlock automatically for both of you. There's no grant flow to manage.
Yes. Sign-up, swipe, match and chat are free, and verification is free for everyone. A premium tier (Lustimacy Plus) adds priority visibility and "who liked you", similar to other dating apps.
We never link to your social media, never sell your data, and never make your profile crawlable by search engines. Verification photos are checked then discarded. You can delete your account in two taps and your data is permanently removed within 30 days.
Ethical non-monogamy — relationships built on mutual awareness and consent. It includes the lifestyle, swinging, polyamory, open relationships, and everything in between. Lustimacy is a home for the whole spectrum.
Lustimacy is what you make of it. Some people are here for a weekend in Cap d'Agde; others are here to find a long-term play partner or a third for their relationship. The filters and detailed profiles let you find the speed and shape that fits you.
Yes. In search filters you can set your search to your current location with a distance radius, to one or more specific countries, or go fully global. Handy before a trip, or if your scene is simply somewhere other than where you live.
Lifestyle dating for couples and open-minded singles. Free to join, verified profiles, and private photos that stay blurred until you match.